There was a recent episode on SBS Insight about new approaches to aged living, and in particular, broadening the options to more holistically and individually cater for the needs and wishes of families. It was heartening the conversation was being aired and scary in the same breath at the lack of choice.
Currently, unless you are independent, both physically, mentally and even financially, the options for seniors as they move into the remainder of their lifetime, narrows significantly. For most, whilst the desire to maintain autonomy and stay at home is paramount, often this option is not available or practical.
Should a person need help, their first wish is to have a partner or family take care of them, but often that is not available.Continue Reading
I’ll get straight to the nitty gritty. In your marriage has the spark gone? Are you growing in parallel silos or unevenly or in different directions? Not talking anymore or only about the kids and home chores? Are you missing the affection, intimacy and thrill? Are you feeling bored, unappreciated or even taken for granted? Are you looking enviously at other relationships? Are you having the same fights and never fully resolving disagreements or disappointments? You don’t want to leave and still love each other, but you are wondering how things might be if you did leave? Are you feeling un-resourced and don’t know where to go for support? Maybe you are at the point of wishing for a miracle?
At the coal face of marriage, beyond theContinue Reading
Kidz on the Coast (Dec/Jan 2015)
When I interview couples for their weddings, and I ask about the importance of their family, this phrase is almost word for word repeated countless times, “my family is my world”.
I think this is even more true than we know….even for people who don’t have a great relationship with their extended family and may not be close or have them ‘in their world’.
Families not only prepare you for the world and life, I believe the amount of diversity, conflict, complexity, triumph, challenge and richness of interactions you experience and learn from in the microcosm of your family circle, is exactly what you will find on the macro-scale out in ‘the real world’. It is inescapable.
Whatever the quality of relationships you experience in your family of origin, there will be an unnerving degree of pattern repetition and replay happening inContinue Reading
Wow….I have enjoyed a cracker season of weddings in Spring. It pays to book your key wedding suppliers in advance because September, October & November are definitely peak months (along with Feb & March).
Congratulations to all my couples: Mr and Mrs Halliday, Mr & Mrs Monaghan, Mr & Mrs Dehar, Mr and Mrs Copland, Mr & Mrs, Robens, Mr & Mrs Probert, Mr & Mrs Williams, Mr & Mrs Dwyer, Mr & Mrs Chapman, Mr & Mrs Hall, Mr & Mrs Wolski, Mr & Mrs Braham, and Mr and Mrs Fitzgerald. And my December couples so far….. Mr & Mrs Hortsman, and Mr & Mrs Simpson!
Every wedding is so unique to each couple. There are too many highlights to single out….I feel so blessed and love them all…..instead, here is a gallery of love and joy:Continue Reading
Death is a profound rite of passage that escapes no-one. Facing the end of life process – whether through illness or old age, disease or accident – can be made meaningful and bearable by creating the appropriate rituals and celebrations. End of life ceremonies to mark this final passage, and the people and relationships involved, are incredibly important.
The funeral is the most sacred and profound ceremony to conduct. It is the final authoring of one’s life. But often families are unprepared and unresourced. Even with an expected death, many families find the essential information they need to make decisions and feel empowered with choices, is not available to them.
It is not just the funeral though, how many of us have a plan for our dying? Given that most of usContinue Reading
In between the Friday and Sunday rain and gloom, Saturday the 5th emerged with warmth and gorgeous sunshine. It was a big grass roots, community-based, home crafted, all hands on deck wedding that transformed the ordinary of Kariong Scout Camp into the extraordinary – a vintage bush festival of love. We did kitchen duties, before, during and after. There was flashmob singing, a BBQ and bonfire for millions of kids being being gorgeously feral and there was so much great food and wine, joy, music, laughter, dancing and feasting. We needed a few days to recover but it was all worth it and what a wedding should be…community, love, friendship, joyful connecting and celebratingContinue Reading
Celebrating 10 years as a Celebrant!!!! Thank you to all my amazing couples, families and clients. xxx
This week the Seasons clicked over into Spring…Happy Spring! And it’s a special Happy 10 Year Anniversary I celebrate also on the 1st of September as a celebrant. I was appointed by the Attorney General on the 1st of September 2005. Here’s my shout out to all my special couples, families and all the people and professionals I have been privileged to journey with. I feel very blessed and thankful. And a heart full of love and joy. Thank you! Here’s to many more decades doing what I love so passionately. Xx Sarah ( with special cameo appearance from Harvey!)Continue Reading